readings// Hunger – Roxane Gay Never has a book more beautifully, heartbreakingly, intertwined violence, sexual abuse, obesity and being a black woman than Roxane’s Hunger. I read about women’s participation in politics and decision making, abortion laws, women’s health and rights. I read on schema formulation, modifying (unhealthy) rules and assumptions, reactions to trauma and grounding techniques- […]


readings// Why Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Enlightenment – Robert Wright Difficult Women – Roxane Gay I love professor Wright and felt particularly proud of myself for being a meditator while reading. Felt a little too emotionally stable for Difficult Women, I found the writing pretentious and myself looking forward to the book […]

Coffee Thoughts Shop 2: Things to Stop Doing

Going to cute cafés to get work done + My thoughts = Coffee Thoughts Shop.  Join me on this journey to caffeine poisoning and success (hopefully not both).  talking shit about kids’ appearance, even if they are our most hated politician’s children not texting back the people we love being rude to waiters  flirting with […]

The advice you never asked for (but a lot of other people did)

I was searching online on how to bring to life this fancy feature I thought of, I didn’t really know how to Google it though. I typed ‘article how to’ and the most searched questions turned up (turn up yoo) so I thought I’d answer. No one asked me, but I won’t let that stop […]

coffee thoughts shop: one

Going to cute cafés to get work done + My thoughts = Coffee Thoughts Shop. Join me on the road to caffeine poisoning and success (hopefully not both). I wonder if the waiters refer to me as the girl who takes more than an hour to drink ONE espresso Every time I look over at the […]

What do you truly want?

This post originally appeared at Life in 10 Minutes. I want to be able to travel whenever I want to wherever I want to. Be able to connect with people across the world and I’m working toward that by creating my website and writing what I want to share with the world. I believe humans […]

Take a lesson

Here’s a lesson I learned, or should I say relearned for the 55th time.Oh I can say what I want, I’m an adult. I had to write. I had to clean the house. I had to unpack. I had to delete so many emails. I had to… you get the idea. Do stuff. The thing […]

Until the morning

I love mornings. I love them. I talked about new chances yesterday, I think mornings represent that so well. I actually had the day off today, my boyfriend’s call woke me up then he stopped by the house to give me a goodmorning kiss. I could just stop right here really… But today some other great thing(s) […]